Positive Transformation in Cognition, Emotion and Behavior after loss

Raghubir Singh Pirta Himachal Pradesh University, Shimla Pages:9 - 31 The essay begins by tracing loss of object in psychoanalytic work of Sigmund Freud on grouping, mourning, and moralizing tendencies in human mind. Problem is presented in the first part, a narrative on pain of separation fueling radical transformation in minds suffering loss of loved one. Focus then changes to positive aspect, colloquially known as fire of biraha or pain of separation burning inside. Second part is elaboration of fire of biraha, and proposes some transformations in cognition, emotion and behavior of those who suffer from loss of object, ideas, identity or even place. Based on underlying processes, these transformations are tentatively classified as, antithetical, metaphorical, artifactual, dissipative, and simulative. Third part of essay evaluates main concepts in view of other authorities, a synthesis is perceptible on affectional systems having origins in early bond between infant and mother. In the end, the essay looks from functional perspective on mourning facilitating processes of rejuvenation after loss in persons or groups. Keywords: Attachment. Love. Metaphor. Separation. Mourning. Superego. Ambivalence. Functionalism. Group selection.